Friday, July 4, 2014

101 things to ask the man your courting





      Over the past few days my sister, mother and I came up with 101 questions to ask the man your courting. Enjoy!
         



      101 Questions to ask the man your courting
       

      1. Is He saved? Date
      2. What are his music Standards?
      3. what are his views on MODESTY
      4. does he believe God picks your family size or him?
      5. What version of the bible does he use?
      6. what are his views on doctrine?
      7. does he believe in the literal 6 day creation?
      8. views on the 5 Solas
      9. How is his Prayer life?
      10. what are his plans for the future?
      11. Does he like eating healthy food?
      12. what has God called him to be; what is his calling?
      13. would he name his kids for the meaning of it? names he likes
      14. church he plans on attending
      15. Views on mortgage, debts and credit cards
      16. what does he believe about car payments
      17. rent or buy SMALL house:)
      18. is he PURE
      19. thoughts on TV and the internet
      20. favorite books, music
      21. Views on creation vs. Darwinism
      22. Etiquette
      23. MANNERS
      24. does he believe that only men should preach the word of God
      25. Views on wife being a stay at home mom, not working
      26. what Instruments does he plays
      27. living in countryside vs. city
      28. where he works and went to college
      29. thoughts on once saved always saved vs. losing salvation
      30. does he enjoy singing?
      31. views on no age limit on having children
      32. what are his standards
      33. views on HOMESCHOOLING and curriculum
      34. is he against sodomy, adultery and fornication?
      35. daily devotions
      36. is he against divorce, under ANY circumstances
      37. what are his habits, good and bad :)
      38. Character qualities he is working on
      39. Is he a republican or democrat?
      40. where he wants to live
      41. is he family orientated?
      42. does he like to travel
      43. views on the youth group
      44. views on age segregation
      45. The Sacraments
      46. God's judgment
      47. Communion and baptism
      48. tithing
      49. what are his struggles?
      50. Sufficiency of Scripture
      51. Favorite activities/hobbies
      52. favorite meals
      53. beliefs about holidays...
      54. Sanctity of life
      55. ultimate goal in education...math or bible?
      56. beliefs on limited government
      57. how are his sibling/parent relationship
      58. does he ask forgiveness often or does he toss it away
      59. how does he deal with wounds and hurts
      60. How does he deal with bitterness
      61. Date of Birth
      62. how old is he?
      63. does he belief the government should run according to scripture?
      64. what are his views on biblical femininity and manhood?
      65. does he believe the lady is the weaker vessel? What will he do to protect us as the man of the home?
      66. does he read Mark Twain or other Apostate's books?
      67. does he believe in scriptural child training?
      68. does he believe and know the different roles for men and ladies?
      69. what does he think about State welfare? is he for or against it?
      70. would he ever consider adopting?
      71. what does he think about mentally disabled children? would he want to abort them or adopt them?
      72. would he allow video games in the home? does he believe in limited media or the more the better?
      73. how many acres would he want?
      74. would he lead the family both spiritually and financially, etc.?
      75. does he want to furnish the home with beautiful antique furniture or plain modern?
      76. what are his views on spanking
      77. would he want Christian healthcare (Samaritan ministries)?
      78. will he give it his all to help make his family better serve God and live for him?
      79. is he content, but always striving to do better?
      80. what does he do for work?
      81. does he want animals?
      82. does he believe that the husband and wife are sanctification tools for one another?
      83. does he think it is the churches responsibility to help the widows and orphans or the government's?
      84. does he believe you are saved by grace and not works?
      85. does he believe in the resurrection of Christ?
      86. what are his beliefs on our body being the temple of Christ?
      87. does he believe you should renew your mind with the word of God?
      88. does he believe he should leave an inheritance for his children?
      89. what are his thoughts on having children learn instruments at an early age?
      90. what are his views on authority and obeying the authority?
      91. what are his views on the Sabbath day?
      92. does he give up his rights easily?
      93. does he like tea or coffee?
      94. does he believe women should be in the military?
      95. does he enjoy the home life?
      96. does he believe in cremation or the biblical burial?
      97. does he believe marriage is a covenant or contract?
      98. Is he truthful and sincere?
      99. does he believe in a simple (yet elegant) biblical wedding (cheap)
      100. what is his favorite scripture verse?
      101. Who does he look up to spiritually?

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